1. Love is a gift and love always begins with us. You must love yourself in order to love others. Love is a process of giving and receiving. You won't know how to give away love unless you possess it within yourself first. Likewise, you cannot receive love if you don't feel that you truly deserve it.
2. Romantic love s the number one illusion for single women. Many women dream of romance and falling in love with that special person. This type of love is known as Eros love, which is that emotional or romantic love that constitutes the feeling of being "in love." Eros love is that intense sexual desire or overwhelming longing or craving for someone. However, there are other types of love that we need in our life, namely Philos love (friendship love) and Agape love (unconditional love). Philos love is about companionship, friendship and connecting with people to share life's journey. Agape love is unconditional love and it is from God. To feel completely satisfied and fulfilled, we need all three loves to be present in our lives.
1. Most relationships will come to an end, so prepare for it - and accept it. Most of your dating relationships will end, unless you get married, and sometimes even that relationship is terminated by divorce. I'm not trying to be pessimistic, but it's the truth. Every relationship does not have to last forever; that may be setting your hopes too high right now. It's too much pressure, particularly if you're not with the right person. Living happily ever after may not be something you can work out; it simply might not be attainable. If you are in an unfulfilling relationship that is wrong for you, don't be afraid to end it. A sure sign that it is probably falling apart is if you are desperately trying to keep the relationship together. The harder that you are trying, the more likely it is falling apart.
2. Men rarely change, so it is important to evaluate a man based on who he is right now. Take a long hard look at who he is now and see if he is a good fit for you today. Don't bank on a lot of major changes to occur. It is not your responsibility to change him. If he wants to change, he will, but on his own and in his own time. So, know that men don't want to be changed by you. Enjoy him for who he is or leave him alone.
3. Do not underestimate the relationship between a man and his mother. When a guy doesn't have any relationship with his mom, and she is living, it's a huge red flag. Or if he speaks to his mother in a disrespectful or harsh manner, he will likely treat you the same way. Competing with a man's mother is a lose-lose situation. You will not win. His mom has loved him unconditionally all his life, and well, you, not so long. If you want a smooth relationship with your man, establishing or improving your relationship with his mother is key.
4. Before a man can notice your personality or appreciate your brains, he must be physically attracted to you. When you get dressed, always think sexy, then style. You want to look sexy, but not sleazy. Accent your best physical features (hair, butt, chest, etc.) and be attractive and confident when you walk out of the door!
5. Don't underestimate the importance of sex in a relationship. Seek to keep the spice and spark in your sex life. Ladies, it is time to reconnect with our sexual selves! Don't blame others for your lack of sexual desire and interests. Take the responsibility to discover what pleases you sexually. You have to be comfortable with your sexuality in order to please a man and meet his needs. Men love sex! And they actually need sex for a physical release. If you generally have a low sex drive and are not interested in sex, you may want to seek a doctor to see what is causing it. Sometimes it is due to being tired or stressed, but it may be physical and due to a hormonal imbalance.
6. One of the biggest secrets to attracting men is to have a full, active life. Sometimes when we meet a new guy, we forget everything we did before we met him. We start canceling plans with family and friends, stop working out, quit hobbies, and try to keep our schedule open for whatever he wants to do. When you meet a new guy, don't lose the life you worked so hard to create. Keep active and don't become a slave to the phone waiting for his call.
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