Men love sex! And they actually need sex physically, for the physical sexual release it provides. The Fellas say sex is one of their most favorite things to do. Know that there is a difference between good sex and great sex for a man. That difference is determined in part by your pleasure. Men want to please women in bed and be certain that their sex partner is satisfied. It really turns him on to know that he can please you, bring you to an orgasm, and satisfy you. For this reason and for your own pleasure, you'll want to be able to sincerely enjoy and receive enjoyment from sex.
Ladies, it is time to reconnect with our sexual selves! Don't blame others for your lack of sexual desire and interests. Take the responsibility to discover what pleases you sexually. You have to be comfortable with your sexuality in order to please a man and meet his needs. Men are drawn to women who are comfortable with their sexual identity. So why not maintain a healthy view of sex and be open to new experiences? However, keep in mind that most men are generally freaky, and I would never suggest you do everything freaky with a man who won't even do the small things for you―such as taking you out to a nice dinner on occasion.
Sexual compatibility is a necessary part of a meaningful relationship. And even if you think you have the "good good" when it comes to sex, it is just one of the keys to intimacy. Sex alone will not make a man want to marry you. Maybe sex and a beautiful face and body, but good sex alone is usually not enough for a man to want to make a marital commitment. However, bad sex will definitely cause him to seek sex from someone else.
Don't underestimate the importance of sex in a relationship. Seek to keep the spice and spark in your sex life... and always practice "safe sex"!
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